Exchange of fluids can become literal. Contrary to stereotypes, golden showers is not an extreme practice, but a rather popular fetish. According to an American study, 36% of women had such experiences, which clearly suggests that golden rain is not only possible in porn. It is up to you to decide who will make it rain and who will shower in it. And we will help you immerse yourself into this practice carefully and safely.
Getting ready
Golden showers is a fairly common practice in BDSM. It is a demonstration of power that can be woven into a plot about total submission. It is a practice of trust and unconditional acceptance.
- Discuss boundaries: how acceptable this practice is, who will host, what body parts will be involved in the process.
- Choose a place. The bathroom or shower is the right place. In the bedroom you can place a vinyl sheet or some towels.
- The opinion that the urine is sterile is false. Therefore, do not spill golden showers on the skin that has damage.
Some people like the golden shower as a type of play with natural fluids: moisture, saliva, warmth and smell.
Scenario
First, drink a lot of water. After the second or third urination, the urine becomes practically transparent, so you can feel the appearance, color and smell like a warm stream of water. Drink some more, and when your bladder is full, practice.
Remember that any participant can stop the practice at any time.
It is also important to understand that, as with any other practice, there are different degrees of engagement and levels of roughness. It is not necessary to use mouth in such play, although many prefer to swallow the golden shower. But you don’t have to go so far and just practice urinating on the body. It is especially pleasant to feel a warm stream on particularly sensitive areas — nipples, clitoris, anus, penis head abdomen, inner thigh. This process is not only physically pleasant, but also gives a sense of unity, acceptance and psychological fusion.
Most of the time, spilling golden showers can be emotionally difficult when it is the first time. We are not used to going number one even in the presence of another person, let alone doing it on someone. Even with a full bladder, it will take training and preparation to piss, so that the brain will adapt to the new context and not block the process. It’s important to understand that this experience has nothing to do with your daily life or with your urination after this.
After the golden showers, make sure you take care of the host partner. You can shower together, then wrap your partner in a towel, and ask about his/her feelings. Hugs and soft questions will make you feel comfortable: How was it? Do you want to do it again? Remind the partner that you don’t want to hurt each other and do everything by mutual consent.