Good old phone sex. It’s like a vinyl record or Polaroid photos. The good old sound of the voice will add a nice vintage feel to your next call. Try this simple but titillating practice, as a stand-alone session or a warm-up session before you try something else.
Getting ready
Find the old phones. The older, the better. iPhones are for amateurs. Go hardcore and find flip phones or the brick sized ones. Perhaps, even the old landline ones with the spiral cable. If you are really into it, find working phone booths. This can be a challenge by itself.
Come up with a location for each of you. One of you can go to the country house, the other can stay at home. Or take advantage of the situation when either of you goes on a business trip. Dress up to feel sexy. Use sex toys if you want.
Scenario
So the phone is in your hand, the number’s been dialed. You can play a confidential conversation between old lovers.
- Hello. I want you so bad.
- I want you, too
- What are you wearing?
- I just came back from work. I’m wearing a skirt...
- The high-waist one?
- Yes. And a black blouse. And do you know what’s under them?
- You are a master of suspense.
- There is nothing under my blouse. I’m not wearing underwear either. But I wear tights. Now is your turn. What are you wearing?
- I’m fresh out of the shower. I’m wearing only a bath towel.
- This is cheating. You are already naked. You should be punished.
- What will be my punishment?
- The anal plug.
- This is not a punishment. Done.
- Are you sure?
- Yes.
- Well done.
- I want to undress you!
Phone sex can have variations. You can turn it into role-playing. For example, play the girl from the ad.
- Hello. I saw your ad...
- Yes. This is me. What do you want right now?
- I have a fantasy to tell you. Just promise you won’t judge.
- I’m here to listen and get you hot, but not to judge.
- Listen then...
Come up with a character who confesses of something secret, like a love of voyeurism or a foot fetish. Or stay yourself and say something new to each other.
Warning!
This is first and foremost a play. We strongly suggest not to skip the aftercare — the process of tender-loving care and attention. These can be BDSM sessions, rough practices or any sexual interaction. It helps to relax, come down from a feel-good chemical rush, return to a comfortable, safe space. There are many ways to provide aftercare, for example by discussing the sexual interaction that just happened, what worked well and what didn’t, to cuddle, bring water, cover with a blanket or a plaid, take a bath, turn on your favorite music or other.