Lingam is a word that comes from tantric practices, and it means penis. Lingam massage includes prostate stimulation, perineum massage, and slight touch of testicles. It’s a meditative practice that builds contact with the body and helps develop sensuality in the pair.
Getting ready
- Create a relaxing atmosphere. Light candles, dim the lights, put on relaxing music. Everything to unwind.
- Choose a massage oil. Ideally, edible and the one that melts in your hands easily.
- Synchronize your breath with your partner. Inhale — exhale. Deep and slow, in sync.
Scenario
- Start the massage. Start with feet and legs. Proceed to massage the stomach and chest, and linger on hands. Don’t touch the penis or the surrounding areas yet. Let your partner get into a relaxed state, anticipating the pleasuring. All the movements have to be lingering, smooth. Avoid pressure and compression, remember to breathe.
- Pour ample lubricant and start the penis massage. Stroke it with one hand, together with two palms, easily touch the testicles while your fingers massage the head of the penis. Repeat your movements at least three times, hypnotizing and inducing a tactile trance-like state.
- If your partner doesn’t mind, start massaging the anus. For many men, this is a delicate area, so ask first whether he is comfortable with such stimulation. Run your hand along the anus gently, with circular movements.
Finish the massage by covering the partner with a light blanket. The purpose of the Lingam massage is a shared skin-to-skin experience, but not an orgasm.