Swearing in the bedroom is a fairly common fetish. But people don’t always know how to use it properly. It’s all about the thrill, which sometimes is not easy to catch. Without your free-swinging mood, the dirty talk will sound contrived, and, in fact, dirty words should come from the heart, being fueled by love and aggression in the middle. Learn how to dirty talk, try on permissiveness, and overcome inhibitions.
Getting ready
Talk about your desires. Usually, there is some kind of a plot behind the dirty talk. You can role-play in this storyline. Discuss what this story is going to be. Punishment for transgression? A wave of pent-up anger?
Scenario
Passionate sex is the best for such experimentation. Dirty talk is usually accompanied by spanking, slapping, and spitting. It often demonstrates the “I love you so much that I hate you” level of arousal. If you practice dirty talk and spanking without foreplay, there is a chance to miss the moment or feel disaffected.
Then discuss what particularly turned you on. Well, remember that actions are more important than any words, so don’t forget to take care of each other with affection and tenderness as your session is over.