Cunnilingus skills are often considered some kind of sacred knowledge. In fact, anyone can master this technology. The receiving party will need to listen to their body and provide feedback, and the giving party will need to listen and adjust.
Getting ready
The most important thing about cunnilingus is to know what a clitoris is and what it consists of. The clitoris has a large inner part — the body, as well as legs and bulbs. The projecting part — the head — is the smallest. The partner will tell you how to stimulate the head of the clitoris. Some clitorises are painfully sensitive and can only be stimulated through the hood. Some, on the contrary, require a strong impact. Therefore the receiving part will have to say clearly how they want it to get the process going the right way.
Scenario
Foreplay. Hold your partner at the hips, stroke and squeeze them. Pay attention to the inside of the thigh — it’s very sensitive. Slowly advance to the vulva. First, kiss her through her underwear, lick her panties, and then take them off and start caressing it directly.
Fundamentals. Stimulation of the head alone is not enough. Clitoris legs envelope the entrance to the vagina, so driving a tongue inside the small labia is a good idea. Relax your tongue and press it tightly against the vulva, slowly move it from the bottom to the top. Repeat this several times to warm up the partner, and then play with “hard” tongue. Apply the tip of your tongue to different parts of the vulva, alternating the force of pressing, direction and speed of movement. Explore your partner, try things, ask and listen to feedback.
Don’t use just your tongue, use your nose, chin, lips, hands, and maybe a vibrator. This will only make the process better and allow the partner to experience different sensations.
Articulation exercises. Oral sex is a slow process, so it is important to train the muscles of the tongue and its stamina. Especially if that’s the way you want your partner to come.
For example, for some girls in the plateau phase (the apex of arousal leading to orgasm) monotonous stimulation with the same speed and pressure can be important. If at this point you get tired and stop to take a break, the arousal can go back to the previous stage and you have to start all over again. As an exercise to train your tongue for speed, agility, and even a sense of rhythm, it’s a good idea to practice tongue twisters. Just kidding! But seriously, a singer warm-up really helps.
Orgasm, of course, is not the main thing here, but it is a very nice addition. You can use cunnilingus as a warm-up or as an independent practice. Anyway, do it with love, learn to listen and feel your partner.
Remember! Oral sex can transmit STI just like penetrative sex. We recommend using latex oral dams or condoms during oral sex.
If during cunnilingus or rimming an oral dam is not available, it can be made from any condom. Cut off the tip of the condom and then cut the condom lengthwise so that the tube becomes a sheet.