Everyone seems to know how to give fellatios. But sometimes the obvious is incredible. Here are a few simple recommendations to enhance your technique and the pleasure of this practice.
Getting ready
- Desire. Caress the partner’s penis only when you want to. Caressing the penis can be more than pleasant to the giving party: lips and tongue have a lot of nerve endings, and the drive to “taste” sweet spots of the partner is quite natural. Do not “gift” fellatios, do not “give pleasure” without having a pleasure yourself.
- Hygiene. It’s very simple: all those involved in the process should make sure they are clean.
- Hydration. The process will be comfortable and exciting when there is plenty of saliva. Drink a glass of water and keep it close by in case of feeling parched. It is also possible to use edible lubricant — it tastes good and provides the required hydration level, and such lubricant often contributes to increased saliva production.
- Discussion. All people are different, and not all men enjoy oral pleasuring. Ask how your partner feels about fellatios, which places are most sensitive, which pace he prefers. Maybe it takes away some of the spontaneity that you need, but you don’t risk the experience that’s tainted in case of a mistake.
Scenario
Here we go. Don’t rush to get inside his pants. Start by caressing with your hand through the fabric, slowly undo the belt, hold your finger on the penis. Do you feel how it gets hard?
The main erogenous zone. Almost all men without exception love when their penis is caressed with a tongue. However, the head of the penis of some men is hypersensitive, and even delicate touching with lips can cause painful sensations. Do not hesitate to ask questions: “Are you comfortable? Or should I change something?”.
Tenderness. If your partner hasn’t been aroused yet, you can manage to swallow the penis completely. Then move the foreskin back gently, and with a relaxed wet tongue, make circular movements on the head.
Improvisation. An ad libbing sensual fellatio can include: caressing only the head of the penis, encircling the penis with your lips (no biting), upward movements with a twist, creating vacuum and pulling the penis up.
Pace. In porn fellatios are more often shown as done aggressively and pacy. This is just one of many different stimulation variations: some like when long lingering movement, some like it fast and aggressive. How do you know which is the case? Just ask: “How do you like it? Do you want me to speed up? Do you like it like that? Do you want me to change something?”.
Reaching the climax. Increasing the speed and intensity gradually, start working it with the hand, too: wrap it around the head and move up and down as if hiding the head in the foreskin and exposing it again. Moisturize the process heavily with saliva. The hand should glide smoothly.
Relief. What does a fellatio end with? Anything, really! The process is pleasant on its own. Some men can easily orgasm from penis pleasuring, others can’t climax at all. Stretch the pleasure, gently caressing the testicles, squeezing the buttocks. Play, look in the eyes, pause, tease. A fellatio is sex as well, and it’s about mutual pleasure.
Remember! Oral sex can transmit STI just like penetrative sex. We recommend using latex oral dams or condoms during oral sex.