Seductive undressing is often lacking in long-term relationships. Slow, beautiful undressing will bring back excitement to the interaction that happens before sex and greatly prolong the foreplay.
Getting ready
Contrary to stereotypes, you don’t have to dress extravagantly for strip tease. Office suits and even yoga pants can stir your imagination. But to avoid making it look like a cheesy talent show on TV, dress in a multilayer outfit: shirt, trousers, skirt, underwear, stockings, watches, hair clips, jacket — don’t be shy on details and accessories.
Scenario
Music. You can choose very different music, or not use it at all. But don’t even think about using Stop by Sam Brown! Playing Chip and Dale cartoon theme you will have a great laugh, but it will not create the necessary mood. It will help to play your favorite track, that will relax you, will set the pace and mood. Marilyn Manson — for something intense manner, Lana Del Rey — for a languid atmosphere.
Transition. Take off your glasses, put away your wristwatch — this will signal the transition from weekday to weekend, from work to rest. Unwind your hair, take off your tie — in a word, let your sexuality run its course.
The secrets of the body. Gradual exposure is fascinating! You slowly reveal the mysteries of the body, layer by layer. Take off your jacket, unzip one button on your shirt. Tempt, stroke yourself through your clothes. Play inaccessible.
Contact. Do not lose contact with the partner. Look in the eye, approach, let them touch you, but move back right away. Turn your back when you are taking something off. Remember, you are still a mystery.
In the end, start stripping your partner. Trust us, he/she will already be quite eager.
It’s okay to feel embarrassed and anxious at first. You can practice some striptease moves in front of the mirror, or you can record a video of yourself. The key is to enjoy the process.