In this position you can both give and receive oral sex, fully enjoying each other’s genitalia. The 69 position can be both an independent session and part of foreplay.
Getting ready
Many people can't relax during oral sex as a receiving partner. They think about the pleasure of their partner, of how they taste and how their private parts smell, and if something else is wrong. The 69 position allows you to get away from at least some of your fears and immerse yourself into the process. In this position, you both get both emotional satisfaction and physical pleasure.
Communication. This is an important part of any process. No one can better explain what it means to be sexually satisfied than your partner. It explains why we suggest asking your partner more questions about the things you need to pay attention to.
Hygiene. Take a shower to worry less about taste and smell. You can take it together so you can get horny before the process.
Scenario
Get into a comfortable position: one partner lies on the back while the other partner is on top of them. The penis/vulva should be at face level. You can try a variation of this position on the side, it is more relaxed.
The main and only rule is to enjoy yourself. You can use your hands, use your nose, and sex toys to make it even more enjoyable. We advise you not to get obsessed with the penis/clit and caress the surface of the labia minora and labia majora and the inner surface of the thighs. For men, it’s about scrotum and butts.
Focus on the touches of your partner. It can be a little tricky when you are trying to give pleasure. We would suggest looking for balance and not rushing to drive them to orgasm — build up the pleasure, slowly and sensuously plunge in it, creating sweet tenderness.
Remember! Oral sex can transmit STI just like penetrative sex. We recommend using latex oral dams or condoms during oral sex.
If during cunnilingus or rimming an oral dam is not available, it can be made from any condom. Cut off the tip of the condom and then cut the condom lengthwise so that the tube becomes a sheet.