Sex with a butt plug can be the beginning of real discoveries. For women it is a deep stimulation of the internal part of the clitoris. For men it is prostate stimulation. Anal toys can complement any practice or become the main device in your play with the anus. Before going into anal pleasures discovery, we recommend to choose a device for your choice.
Getting ready
What to consider when choosing an anal toy:
- Shape
The muscles of the anus can easily “swallow” objects. If the toy (or what you use instead of it) is lost in the rectum, a visit to the doctor will be required. A good anal device has a stopper at the base or a handle that is wider than the submersible part. Such a design does not allow the toy to slip inside.
- Material
If it is porous (e.g., made from latex or PVC), the device can only be used with a condom. Since these materials are very difficult to disinfect, bacteria from the rectum can remain in pores and reproduce, and can then cause disease. If the anal toy is made of non-porous material (silicone, metal, glass), it can be used without a condom, but remember to clean it thoroughly after sex.
- Size
It is recommended to start with small-diameter anal toys (up to 5-6 cm). After getting used to the feeling, you can gradually increase the size.
Scenario
If you don’t know what to choose from the variety of anal toys out there, it is understandable. Before buying, please consider: Who will use the toy? Will the device be used during sex? Are there plans to use the toy at parties?
- Butt plugs give a sensation of additional filling and tightness during vaginal penetration, and prepare anus for penis penetration. They can be with or without vibration, ribbed, inflatable, with a displaced center of gravity, with rimming imitating (anus licking), with electrostimulation, with a design (for example, with glass stone or fluffy tail). Beginners are advised to choose a plug from soft silicone, as hard material devices (from metal or glass) can cause discomfort.
- Butt link plugs or anal beads, unlike plugs, do not require a static position of the toy inside. You have to play with them during sex. The main function of the beads is to stretch the anus.
- Anal vibrators are best for simulating anal penetration, providing sensations as close as possible to penetration with a partner. A good option if you need to get used to the sensation of anal sex with a penis.
- Prostate massagers stand out because they are reserved for men only. Such devices are not only sex toys for pleasure, but also help to prevent men’s health problems. They are usually curved to stimulate the prostate.
- Inflatable expanders. This sub-type of anal toys also helps prepare the anus for penetration. They are perfect for beginners: by gradually increasing this expander you can choose the required size.
- Decorative Toys. Toys from glass, metal, with fur tails or glass stones will be an ideal addition to a theme-based look, but in practice are not very convenient. Although glass and metal adjust to the body temperature, they are too hard for long-lasting practice.
Anus and rectum do not release natural lubricant, therefore artificial lubricant during anal play is obligatory. Water-based lubricant is universally used: it can come into contact with all kinds of materials. Silicone-based one lubricates better and is not absorbent, but you can’t put it on silicone toys, it damages them. It is recommended not to use lubricants with anaesthetic effect: this can camouflage the first signs of mucous injury.