A threesome is something that many people fantasize about. Not only men but also women want to try the FMF. For a couple, it’s a new thing that adds experience to a relationship. Finding a third for a couple is usually not easy, so these women are called unicorns. But we will reveal all the secrets of finding them and how to get the most out of this experience.
Getting ready
It might seem like once you find the girl to have a threesome, life will be full of orgasms. Maybe it’s true. But it may well be worth considering some nuances and preparation.
Don’t treat a threesome as a magic pill to fix your relationship. This is a practice worth trying for those whose relationships are stable and strong. For diversity and new experiences.
Think about why you would like to try a threesome. It’s important that your desires coincide, so we recommend you discuss them in detail.
Discuss boundaries before you start. What you can do and what you can’t. For example, whether penetrating anal or vaginal sex is admissible, which interactions with the invited girl are acceptable and which are not. You can agree on safe words to stop the process altogether in case there is some discomfort.
Communicate. Before the process, during and after. It’s possible that you’ve discussed penetrative sex beforehand, but in the process, it’s become clear that it causes discomfort. It is very important to flag it, so as not to accumulate negative feelings — such an approach can hurt everyone.
Focus on making sure everyone has a good time. This will help you avoid resentment and make the practice a pleasant experience.
How to propose the idea?
The first option is to say it openly. Honesty is great. Especially if you are in a relationship where you openly express your thoughts, your ideas, your emotions. For example, say “I wanted to try a threesome. What about you?”. If the person replied positively, let’s go further. If you get a “no”, we advise you to talk about it. Discuss the reasons and the feelings that arise when they think about it.
The second option is to build up to the discussion. Send the partner a GIF depicting such a practice or a photo FMF. Look at the reaction: if they have a clear expression of interest, you can go further. If they respond with rejection and misunderstanding, it is worth postponing the implementation of the practice and discussing where the reaction came from.
Do not exert pressure on a partner. Or if you are the one who is pressured, do not give in to accommodate the other partner.
Who could be the third?
- A girl you’ve already met. It’ll help you avoid the awkward get to know each other stage. But if it’s someone close to you, consider that a threesome can affect your relationship. Softly offer someone the part.
- A stranger. In this case, you don’t have to worry about your relationship as friends. But you will have to look harder and spend more time getting to know each other and making contact.
Who is the “unicorn” and where to catch it?
A unicorn is a girl who is invited to a threesome.
- You can find one at a theme (sex) party. It is the simplest and most convenient option. The people there are more open to such proposals. There are those who have already participated in a threesome at such parties. Anonymously, with no effort.
- In dating apps, theme groups. Before posting an ad, take care of anonymity if you are worried about not revealing your interests publicly. At the same time the more open you are in profile and ad, the more response you will get, because anonymous accounts look suspicious.
What to consider during the search?
Does the girl have experience with FMF? If she does, it’s a good sign. It'll be less awkward and she can make the process more comfortable. It is worth specifying whether a person is in a relationship and there are agreements on the permissibility of such experiments. You can also find out what makes a threesome attractive to them in order to understand each other better and avoid unwarranted expectations.
Scenario
Arranging the meeting
Before you meet in private, we recommend you go on a date together, spend time on a neutral territory, and socialize.
Discuss contraception, whether you will use condoms and oral dams in the process. If not, make sure you get tested and give each other fresh reports.
It is recommended to reserve a room in the hotel in advance for the session, because the neutral territory “equalizes” all participants. You will be on an equal footing in a new space, which will create a more comfortable and safe atmosphere.
We advise you not to use alcohol or other mind-altering substances to control the situation. The drink can “erase” the borders and rules that you set in the beginning.
The process
Remember, it’s important to discuss the boundaries of interaction beforehand. And, with that in mind, improvise. Relax, get aroused and enjoy.
Women can interact with each other if they want to, or only with the man if they are more comfortable. In any case, you have to be prepared to interact with each other, because in the process you will come into contact, even if by accident. Such situations should not cause rejection.
It is good to specify in advance which of the partner’s zones are sensitive to focus on their stimulation. But remember, girls have vulva, clitoris, breasts, nipples, anus, vagina. Men have scrotum, penis, nipples. Stimulate each other’s sensitive areas, try different positions.
Possible pose options
The man lies on his back, one woman sits on top with his penis inside her, the other woman is on his face :)
Penetrative sex with one woman, stimulation with a hand or a toy with another.
If women want to interact with each other, it is possible to have “triple oral sex”, that is, each gives pleasure with tongue/lips/nose to the other participant.
Pose options are actually much richer. Diversity is limited only by your imagination and boundaries. Use your imagination and experiment.
After you’ve finished, it’s important to talk about your feelings, to discuss if you want to repeat it, to remember what you liked and what you didn’t. To eliminate embarrassment, resentment or jealousy, express your feelings and share your emotions.