Spanking is slapping the buttocks with a hand or a flat object. You can spank each other during a foreplay as a turn-on, or you can choose to spank each other as a punishment for not doing assignments in other play practices. This practice can also be exceptional and, if you wish, you can do it as a stand-alone thing.
We advise you to choose the safe word beforehand, for example, make it “red”. So that the partner will be able to stop the play at any time, and you can easily detect that signal.
Take the time to warm up — stroke and massage the buttocks. Then spank the middle or lower part of the buttocks lightly. Gradually increase the force. Take a break every 5-10 spanks and stroke the partner.
Play with frequency and force of spanking. If you want more unusual sensations, try slapping your partner in nitrile gloves. You can wet them with saliva or water — so the slaps will be stronger and more stinging. If you wet them with grease, the slaps will be softer.
Ask for feedback. Tell what you feel yourself, when “punishing” the partner.
This practice will help you understand whether you like flogging and whether to move on to its more sophisticated types and devices.