The anus area is one of the most highly sensitive and erogenous zones in many people. Despite being taboo, oral caressing of the anus (rimming, anilingus) can bring pleasure and become a huge turn-on for everyone involved.
If you are going to perform a rim job, be sure to discuss it with your partner not to spoil the mood and the night by an unexpected “assault.”
Ask your partner to take a shower before you start. If you are unsure of their health status, or you plan to switch quickly between different sexual activities, have latex oral dams or a cut condom readily available.
Create a calm, relaxing atmosphere. Start with kisses and gentle touches. Create a comfortable position for your partner — in a doggy-style position or with a pillow under their thighs. To warm them up, touch their butts, inner thighs, and crotch. Spread the buttocks, gently run your finger between the butts, linger near the anus. In a circular motion, move it around the anus.
Use your lips, build-up and ease the pressure, change the movement direction, gently slip your tongue inside — experiment! To make the whole thing even more appetizing, apply a few drops of edible lubricant around your anus. Try what you get. At the same time, you can squeeze the butts with your hands, fondle your partner's genitals or yourself.
Important! After rimming, do not immediately switch to other oral practices. Microflora from the anus can cause irritation and itching. Rimming can be practiced as a warm-up caress to other types of sex, as part of the BDSM session, involving a psychological element with submissive practices, or as an independent, non-conventional way of getting sexual pleasure.
As you finish, discuss what was cool and what wasn’t so cool. It’s okay if you don’t enjoy this sexual activity.