The Middle Ages have long since passed, but chastity belts are now sold in the shops quite legally. It’s an erection control device, mostly for men. Women’s loyalty belts cannot be worn for long periods of time because of their urinary system design. So 95% of such devices are designed to restrain male sexuality. Gifting a chastity belt without discussing it is a bad idea. But in some cases, it can be a pleasure.
Getting ready
Loyalty belts are popular in almost every part of the world. There are several reasons why people lock their genitals.
- Withholding sexual desire increases sensuality. Withholding sex creates tension, because there’s literally nothing you can do about it. Voluntary celibacy, like a diet, purifies receptors. When the belt is removed, orgasms are valued in a new way.
- Behavior correction. Wearing a loyalty belt can be part of the BDSM play of punishment and reward. It is a corrective task designed to encourage good behaviour and to reprimand wrongdoing.
- A reminder of the owner. The process of putting on a chastity belt is a ritual that shows who is the master or, rather, who is the mistress and who is in control.
As in any extreme sexual practice, the discussion precedes action. Remember: Safe, Sane, Consensual.
Scenario
Before buying a chastity belt, we advise you to determine the purpose for which it is intended. A metal belt that looks like real shackles will look good at a party, but it’s not good for wearing on a daily basis. Metal belts are heavy, they can chafe. Silicone and plastic analogues are much lighter, suitable for daily wear, but not as spectacular.
In order for the belt to fit, it is necessary to measure with a tape the following:
- The diameter of the scrotum together with the penis. The main element of the belt is the ring in which the testicles and penis are placed. This ring should not be too tight to cause discomfort, but also not too loose to prevent erection.
- The length of the penis. The measurement must be carried out in a completely relaxed state. An unsuitable cage can damage or chafe skin, and it will make peeing hard.
- The diameter of the penis. It’s optimal to leave room for air. However, it’s not too loose to trigger an erection.
Often, the chastity belt has additional functions: electrostimulation, anal ball, urethra stimulation. It is better to find a simple and convenient device without additional functions for a start.
Usually, the chastity belt is locked with a usual lock with a key. Smart devices on the market are locked through the application. However, as there was a security breach found in the software, these chastity belts can be hacked, so it is better to use a good old manual lock.
Recommendation on wear and maintenance.
- Before you start wearing a chastity belt for a long period, you should try it on for an hour, then for an evening, then for a day.
- Washing and cleaning the belt should become a daily ritual. Cotton swabs will help you get to the hard-to-reach places.
- Contrary to the tradition of BDSM, it is advised to always have a key to the belt at hand when wearing a belt.
Giving a chastity belt as a gift can be likened to an oath of allegiance, however temporary. It’s an expression of trust, of the power handover, even in a playful way.
The opening of the chastity belt can be solemnly celebrated and become a reason for celebratory sex. It is better if the chastity belt is removed by the dominant partner. Such a release ritual would be a gesture of care, an end to the imposition of restrictions and the end of the play.