Pegging, also known as anal sex with a strap-on where the man is the receiver is a very popular fantasy about swapping gender roles. The guy gets a prostate stimulation and a new passive experience, and the girl gets a highly unusual experience and an opportunity to look at sex from the perspective of the active role, which is more common with men.
Getting ready
How do you choose a strap-on?
A perfect strap-on doesn’t exist. Everyone chooses it according to their preferences and individual characteristics. Some people don’t like chafing straps. Some people get distracted by the internal stimulation from the strapless strap-on. Some people don’t feel comfortable thrusting a strap-on with panties.
Choosing a strap-on means knowing your body and understanding its specificity, and a lot of trial and error. But you can make it easier:
- Take into account your anatomical features. What would be the most convenient strapping in theory?
- Listen to your partner to find the right size. How experienced is he in anal play?
- Feel free to go to the sex shop to touch everything, to try on straps or panties.
Strap-ons can be with straps, built into panties and strapless:
- Strapped strap-on are designed in such a way that the dildo is attached to a special harness wrapping around the thighs — it can be leather (it looks good, but can be chafe and is difficult to strap on) or textile (convenient and soft, but looks less sexy).
- Panties with a strap-on opening have a special fastener in the front which holds the dildo. It’s tempting, but in this format, it’s harder to control the angle of inclination and it takes more muscle work in your hips.
- Strapless strap-ons are a device consisting of two parts — a dildo and a submersible part, which is placed inside the active party. The peculiarity of such strapons is that the end, which is inside, stimulates sensitive areas with the aid of vibration.
Scenario
When we hear “strap-on” we usually imagine a strict domina in latex. But the strap can be used regardless of the genitalia set or the play type. The use of this device is limited only to users' imagination — this kind of sex can be very tender, touching, totally unrelated to BDSM.
More details about anal pegging
If you have decided to try a strap-on in the M + F format, where the man acts as the receiver, then first of all, congratulations — you will have a unique experience! Secondly, we urge that a number of rules be borne in mind.
Like any anal penetration, you have to prepare for pegging. It is usually enough just to go number two or use an enema. You can also use Microlux to not worry about cleanliness.
You must spend enough time massaging, relaxing and arousing before penetration. You can use your fingers or your tongue to relax the partner’s body and anus. Use anal toys for the next step. Start with small ones, gradually increasing the size of the devices, depending on the diameter of the selected strap-on. A careful hand will as well as any device.
- Start the penetration with one finger. Use soft, slow circular motion to penetrate your partner, massage the prostate. Then you can add more fingers, one at a time.
- Don’t forget to add a lot of lubricant. Silicone-based lubricant is ideal because it slides better and does not dry up longer. But it is not compatible with condoms and some toys, so be careful, read instructions or use water-based lubricant.
- Before penetrating, take a comfortable pose. You can get on your elbows and knees or go missionary. In the second case, it is recommended to place a pillow under the buttocks of the man. The woman should have enough room for movement and the height of the anus should be comfortable.
- Strap-on penetration must be precise, smooth, gradual. Enter slowly, inch by inch, pushing gently or in circular motion.
- Don’t go all the way at once. It can be painful. Be careful and patient.
- Ask for his feedback. Find out what depth of penetration is comfortable for him. Also pay attention to the body language, how he reacts to your actions: is he squirming from discomfort or, conversely, relaxed from pleasant sensations.
- Don’t do the friction motions immediately. Let him get used to the device and the new sensations.
It is quite possible that you will not find the right strap-on and comfortable poses immediately. We advise you not to give up and try to work on this practice, because prostate stimulation brings men an incomparable pleasure.