Initiate petting right during your partner’s phone call. The more important and serious the call, the better. It’s a very exciting practice, and it’s a great discipline training exercise.
It is best not to warn your partner to let the element of surprise make your caresses even more exciting. Wait until the conversation starts. Caress the partner’s hair gently, put your lips to their neck, and keep lowering slowly. And if you know that your partner loves surprises, you can take your chances and start with oral pleasuring right away.
Linger on the sensitive areas, play with pace, intensity, make pauses, so that the thread of conversation and the conversation mood is not lost.
The partner’s job is to keep it together, follow the conversation, and not reveal what’s going on on this side of the phone call. Yours is to make sure he/she doesn’t succeed.
Remember! Oral sex can transmit STI just like penetrative sex. We recommend using latex oral dams or condoms during oral sex.
If during cunnilingus or rimming an oral dam is not available, it can be made from any condom. Cut off the tip of the condom and then cut the condom lengthwise so that the tube becomes a sheet.