Using saliva is sexy, unusual, and easy. When we kiss, we exchange saliva naturally. But it can be sexier and become part of the practice if you get focused on fluid exchange ****and playing with saliva.
Getting ready
Some people are highly aroused by spitting and saliva in general. On the whole, this practice includes many erotic aspects, causing arousal and desire both in terms of perception psychology and tactile sensors.
The psychological aspect is that spitting is closely connected with humiliation, so if in sexual life this feeling turns you on, this action will also result in intense emotions and increased arousal. On one hand, saliva is a natural and unavoidable fluid that accompanies any process of sexual interaction — the fluid is involved in kissing and oral sex, it is used for lubricant, and this aspect evokes many nuanced emotions and feelings. Saliva play includes practices when people can spit on each other (in the face, or on other body parts) as well as interact with saliva — smear, rub and exchange. It can become part of BDSM play or, on the contrary, very gentle and romantic contacts.
We suggest discussing your fantasies, desires, boundaries, and forms of acceptability in this practice. You can boost salivation with edible lubricants (they are actually made for this very purpose), or simply wet your mouth with water.
Scenario
What you can do with saliva
The easiest and sexiest thing to do is to kiss as saliva flows out from your mouth. When it flows from you to another person. Or from the cock/vulva to the tongue. It looks so beautiful. Saliva is used as a lubricant. A girl/guy can carelessly spit on the cock before a blowjob, it can be part of the sexual activity and sexual show. You can also spit on the vulva, the anus. But we don’t recommend using spit as a substitute for lubricant. It can affect microflora in the vagina, and won’t create enough glide for anal sex, it won’t be very pleasant and you can get microtraumas.
Some humiliation play involves spitting in the face, mouth, or hand. You can make your partner lick spit off your hand, or make a humiliating comment. The essential factor is that both parties enjoy sexual activity. One partner becomes aroused as a dominant, the other partner enjoys being submissive. Spitting can be interpreted as a “sign,” a play of acceptance.
The final stage. If playing with saliva was part of the BDSM session, you shouldn't forget about aftercare. In general, after any practice, it is important to "ground yourself," come back to normal and discuss what you have enjoyed and what you haven’t enjoyed, and if you want to repeat this experience.