The temptation to have an affair at work can be very strong, but human resources doesn’t encourage it and it can often end up wrong. Make this fantasy a play with your partner, and you wouldn’t have to look for a new job.
Getting ready
Space. Space sets the mood. If you have keys to an office and there’s no security cameras, it’s perfect. If this is not possible, rent a business meeting room: many coworkings provide such services by the hour. What is forbidden is extremely desirable. At home, you can sit at a table in the room, open the computer.
Roles. Discuss who’s in charge and who is reporting. As famous quote goes: “Sex is always about power, and only power is not about sex”. The hierarchy play provides a framework for interaction, especially if you try a role that is not typical in your real working life.
Image. Outfits are an integral part of this play. A shirt and a suit jacket will take you away from your everyday life, help you get in the character.
Scenario
The play. Think of a situation that is far from normal life, otherwise it can provoke negative emotions or unpredictable reactions. For example, if you actually don’t have a presentation or a report or a sales plan, don’t touch that subject during the play. The simplest version of the play is that you come to discuss a promotion or bonus and you need to earn it.
Knock on the door
- Miss/Mister Smith, may I come in?
- I wanted to talk to you about something. I haven’t had a raise in a while, and I work so hard for the company...
- What did you do to deserve a promotion?
Violate the protocol, sit on the edge of the table, move the documents. Act unceremonious while in the role of a subordinate.
- I think I can do something to deserve a raise.
- What is it then?
Seduce, flirt. Touch your boss’s shoulder, touch their knee, touch closer to the groin.
- I think you are seducing me?
- That’s exactly what I’m doing.
When you are playing the role of the boss, be strict, businesslike. Keep an eye on the phone. Pretend you are getting a call.
- Put the phone down, we have an urgent matter to settle.
- What do you think you are doing? Although... yes, I’ll call you back.
Your play has started. Keep undressing each other, make room on the table, pet your partner under the table. Still, don’t forget to ask for a raise.
Warning!
This is first and foremost a play. We strongly suggest not to skip the aftercare — the process of tender-loving care and attention. These can be BDSM sessions, rough practices or any sexual interaction. It helps to relax, come down from a feel-good chemical rush, return to a comfortable, safe space. There are many ways to provide aftercare, for example by discussing the sexual interaction that just happened, what worked well and what didn’t, to cuddle, bring water, cover with a blanket or a plaid, take a bath, turn on your favorite music or other.