Remember your first sex with a partner? A surge of hormones, strong attraction, thrilling sense of mystery and novelty... Go back to that moment!
Wear the same clothes or something similar to what you wore that day, take a walk to the places where the date took place. Talk about something strange, something you haven’t touched yet: “What kind of computer game character turned you on in your youth? What attracts you in a person?”.
Go to a friend’s party, stand in different corners, but watch each other. Isn’t she still the coolest? Aren’t his jokes the funniest? You lock eyes, and it’s obvious that you want each other.
Embrace the emotions and sensations that engulfed you that time — during your first sex.