Despite all the stereotypes, erotic massage is not just about genitalia. First of all, it’s a sensual practice aimed at establishing contact with the body. Massage builds trust in the couple, helps you relax, increases sensation. Besides, massage accelerates lymph flow and stimulates blood flow to the genitalia.
Getting ready
Take care of the mood. Turn on some quiet music, turn down the lights, make sure the room temperature is comfortable. You can choose massage oil, massage bar or massage candle: all of them are equally fit for smooth movement.
Scenario
Intro. Lay the naked partner down on their stomach. First 20 minutes remain in your clothes. Touch the body lightly with your fingertips: feet, buttocks, back, hands.
Warm-up. We recommend starting the massage from the legs and feet — don’t forget these parts of the body, with their many nerve endings. Do not try to do a deep tissue massage. All movements should be gentle and lingering. Erotic massage is a meditative practice: no rush here. Climb up to the buttocks, then the back, finally the neck. Don’t be stingy with the oil!
Tactile reboot. Give your partner a shower of sensations. Touch the partner’s back with your hair tips, breathe over the back of their neck. Undress and caress the body with your breasts and abdomen. Do not forget to switch between different zones: work each finger of the hand, pay attention to the buttocks. Before switching to the front of your partner, cover the body with a soft blanket and gently pull it off. Believe us, it will feel fabulous!
Tangential motion. Change the trajectory of the impacts: go along, across, use soft pressure. The brain is designed to try to predict your movements. Cheat it, switch from neck to stomach.
Arousal. Massage is a great practice for studying erogenous zones of your partner. Listen to their physical reactions: note where the breath has quickened, where there has been moaning. Of course, the inner thighs, pubes, neck, and forearms are especially sensitive. Kiss them, caress them with your tongue. Tease, but keep each other’s excitement under control. If the partner is aroused, ask if you should continue in this direction.
After the massage is complete, do not stop the tactile contact abruptly. Slow down, make the movements more lingering. Place your hands gently on the neutral areas: shoulders, abdomen, body sides. Hug your partner and cover them with a blanket.
At the end of the massage, you can ask how it went. Did they manage to relax? What kind of touches they liked and what they didn’t like. What areas should get more attention next time? We also recommend to stay together for a while: massage makes perfect contact, and it is advisable not to lose at once this sense of connection and harmony. You can stroke each other, drink tea, shower together.