Double penetration gives a sense of being filled, stimulates twice as many nerve endings, and brings incredible emotions, reinforcing intimacy and fueling passion.
Getting ready
Double penetration not only gives you double pleasure, but also requires careful preparation. It’s a great practice to enjoy something new, a fresh experience and a vivid interaction. But for this you have to approach the matter with sensitivity, attention, awe and love. In order for the body to relax, so that the muscles and the brain allow penetration without harm and tension, foreplay is important, with its slow development and increasing level of arousal. We advise you to take your time, not focus on purpose and results, but simply enjoy the process and gradually increase the degree of interaction.
Since several people are involved in double penetration (hereinafter DP), it is important to discuss boundaries, expectations of practice and safety.
DP includes anal penetration, for which you can prepare separately.
- No food with two hours before sex.
- In order not to worry about bodily fluids, take a mild laxative (Microlax) and wait for it to take effect.
- Anal sex can only be practised after preparation of the anus (by anus licking or with amply lubricated fingers or a toy). Penetration can start with one finger, then you insert the plug and only after that gently inject the penis. Lubricate your fingers and inject them one at a time, allowing the sphincter to adjust, gradually increasing the number of fingers. Without this stage, penetration with penis can be unpleasant, so it is better not to skip it.
Before double penetration, in addition to getting aroused we advise to have an orgasm. This will make the process more comfortable because the tissues will be more elastic, the muscles will relax. During the process do not forget to ask whether everyone is comfortable and how they feel.
Pain should not be felt anywhere, at any stage. Pain means that something has gone wrong and the practice must stop.
Important: Every time you change the orifice of penetration (from the anus to the vagina or from the vagina to the anus) you have to replace the condom with a new one. And if you practice penetrative unprotected sex, remember that for anal sex, such interaction is not acceptable. Regardless of the test results and the relationship status, it can disrupt the microflora of male genitalia. Neglecting to change a condom can lead to microflora problems that require treatment.
Scenario
A woman and two men with two penises; a woman, a man with a penis and a woman with a strap-on; or three women, two of them with a strap-ons, may participate in this practice. If we are talking about double penetration involving three people, two of whom have penises, it’s important that both are erected during the process and there is no difficulty with that. You should also discuss poses beforehand. We are talking about the first option in the descriptions here because it’s the most common combination, but the positions are suitable for any variation and there are no limitations. The most convenient will be:
- Doggie style or sandwich. One man lies on his back, a woman sits on top of him and leans slightly forward, the second man approaches from behind. You can try another variation of that pose — a woman needs to turn her back on her partner, who’s down there. Then she’d be more comfortable stimulating the clitoris.
- Spooning — men lie on the side facing each other, between them the woman. One enters the anus, the other in the vagina.
Penetrate with your penises slowly, one after the other. It’s important for the woman to relax. Everything has to be comfortable. Don’t spare the lubricant, especially for anal penetration. Silicone-based lubricant will give you longer lubrication, but with toys you should use water-based lubricant.
Once both partners have entered, a woman or a man can begin to move. It is important to find a pace that will be comfortable for all participants. So remember to keep communicating.
In the process you should additionally stimulate nipples, clitoris, and other erogenous zones of each other.
After practice, don’t forget the aftercare. Give each other support, hug each other, talk, discuss the highlights, the places that were most pleasant and the ones that were uncomfortable, too.
If it doesn’t work, it’s okay. Try again, keeping in mind the experience you’ve gained. It’s perfectly normal.