Ball-busting is a fetish that people implement with the purpose to play with the scrotum; the play can be light or intense. This is a very sensitive area, so this kind of play may be very gentle or, on the contrary, intense for those who love rough sex. In any case, the man gets a lot of physical pleasure, and the giver gets a sense of control and power.
Getting ready
What is ball-busting?
Ball-busting is a general term that is used for any interaction with the scrotum. It can include spanking, binding, flogging, giving blows with hands or feet, playing with clothes pegs, electricity. Along with this, ball-busting can be a part of foreplay, a blowjob, or romantic sex. It can be one of the elements of a BDSM session.
A large number of nerve endings in the groin makes any interaction with the scrotum spectacular. But before you move on to ball-busting, you should get ready for it.
Safety Techniques
Before the session, it’s important to discuss safe words and signs if something goes wrong.
Discuss the boundaries and acceptable exposures. Figure out what you mean by light, medium, and intense stimulation. Some people will feel comfortable with light slaps and tickles while others will feel comfortable with spanking, bondage, and electrocution. Don’t assume you know everything unless you talk to your partner. Discuss it first, and then start a session.
The scrotum is sensitive and needs to be handled carefully. Since it is "separated" from the other organs, it reduces the risk of damaging them during play. But there is a risk of damage to the reproductive system, so be careful.
If you plan to kick your partner in footwear, it is advisable to wear lightweight, soft footwear.
Seek medical attention if you feel severe pain, have lacerations or swelling, have a fever, or have trouble urinating.
Scenario
Start slowly and gently: with tickles, light slaps, and a gentle squeeze in the hand. Gradually (if you agreed on it) move to more intense stimulation. In the process, you can use the Wartenberg wheel, and gently, without strong pressure, stimulate the scrotum with it. You can also use massage candles and ice cubes for temperature play (be very careful as you play with wax if you dare to try, choosing the temperature that will not cause damage as the skin is very sensitive and thin).
Kicks
You can do it with your hand, your foot, a flogger or a paddle.
If you decide to switch to kicking, start with the back of the foot. If you do it with the front of your feet, there is a risk of causing an injury with a big toe.
You have to be careful with any kind of punches, but especially when you punch someone with the knee. It is very difficult to accurately calculate the force of the impact and not to harm your partner, so you have to control yourself and get into this practice when you are feeling sure of yourself and your abilities.
Heels
Apart from kicking, the practice includes stomps on your partner’s scrotum. Most often, stomping is performed with bare feet, but some people like to use heels. The most important thing is to accurately calculate the force of the impact. Maintain a dialogue with your partner, ask if everything is okay and instantly respond to the feedback.
Rope bondage is one of the practices that can be used for ballbusting.
Use a wide rope for bondage. A thin rope can affect circulation or hurt the skin. As you apply bondage, make sure the tie lies flat, not twisted, otherwise, it can cause discomfort and pain.
Tie the bondage around your partner’s scrotum and/or penis and enjoy the visual effect. After tying, you can stimulate the scrotum, but it is better not to apply blows.
In addition to the rope, you can also tie the scrotum with a leash. In this case, you’ll be able to pull it slightly and take a man behind you for a walk on a leash. Another option is to use a blindfold or a pearl necklace.
Сlothes pegs
You can use clothes pegs to stimulate the scrotum. They come with a hook to suspend weights, such as mini-weights. The tension will give additional stimulation.
First of all, gently pull back the skin, fix the clothespin. The smaller the area of skin secured with the clothespin, the less time you can hold it. We recommend using the clothespin not longer than 15 minutes. Once you have decided to remove the clothes pegs, gently, holding the skin, unfasten it and remove it from the partner’s body. It is advised not to rub the skin areas as it will only increase the pain. Allow the blood flow to get back to normal.
Electricity
When you practice ballbusting, you can try many things, including electrical stimulation. In our guide, we review electric sex toys which describe in detail safety play and scenarios.
During any exposure, don't forget to confirm with your partner if they feel comfortable. After the session, we advise you to inquire if your partner feels okay. Feedback from the “top” is equally important as from the receiving person. It is important to show concern for each other, asking how they felt during the process, whether they felt comfortable in this role, was worth changing. Caress and hug each other, going back to your normal mood.