Anal fisting is an unusual practice in which a hand or large toys are inserted into an anus. It gives the receiver a sensation of being filled and stimulates more nerve endings than the penetration with fingers, toys or penis. Therefore it gives more pleasure. The second player gets psychological satisfaction, a sense of control. Fisting is a close intimacy experience for everybody involved. And to get maximum pleasure and comfort from it, you need some preparation.
Getting ready
To begin, prepare your hands: wash carefully and make sure that they are free of wounds, cuts, short clippings, remove rings/bracelets to minimize the risk of micro injuries. Latex or nitrile gloves will make the hands smooth and prevent the lubricant from soaking into the skin, and it is an additional protection against STIs.
Prep the sphincter muscles. Start with small butt plugs, gradually increasing their size, giving yourself time to adjust. Using your fingers, start with one, gradually increasing the number. Don’t forget the lubricant. It is necessary for any anal play. It is important to prepare the sphincter for the hand, which takes time, patience and relaxation.
Which lubricant to choose
We recommend using silicone-based lubricant, because it lubricates longer. You will not have to add it as often as water-based lubricant. But it’s only compatible with toys made of glass, wood and metal. Therefore, if your toy is made of a different material, choose a water-based lubricant. There are also special oils and gels for fisting. They are specially designed for this practice, taking into account all the specifics, so they will suit the purpose.
Scenario
- Start with a massage and arousal. This is very important. Arousal makes the tissue more elastic, and the process is more pleasant.
- Lubricate the area around the entrance, inside it, and the hand. Use ample lubrication. Slow and slow, one by one, put your fingers in the anus, give the muscles time to adjust. You should not experience any pain. If it feels like something’s going wrong and you have to stop.
- Don’t forget to communicate and get feedback from the partner. Ask about their sensations.
- When the body is prepared and aroused, it is possible to start penetrating with the hand. Make it into a “beak” by putting all fingers together. And slowly start to insert it (do not forget feedback and ample lubricant). The most difficult place is the knuckles, when you get to them, be especially careful. Take your time. If you can’t do it now, you can try it another day. That’s not a problem.
- When the hand is inside you can slowly rotate it. Gently turn it into a fist to increase the filling. If there is a male in the receiving position, don’t forget the prostate area, stimulate it. It has a lot of nerve endings and stimulation of this area gives a unique sensation. Use ample lubricant.
- After an orgasm or when you decide to end the practice do not take out your hand abruptly. Do it slowly, the body must be relaxed.
Anal fisting, like any other practice, can wear you down emotionally and physically. Don’t forget the aftercare: take care of physical and emotional comfort. Talk to each other, share your emotions, go to the shower together, wash away the rest of the lubricant, wash your hands and your toys, and finish by cuddling in bed.